Testimonials and Affirmations
"I learned what submission was and why people do it..."
A Gentle Approach...
Hey Xir, I’m so very grateful for today. I’m still floating on clouds.
You are one of the most beautiful beings I have encountered. The minute you walked in the door, I could feel your energy radiating. It was like rays of light entering my space, calming and assuring.
I appreciate your gentle approach, and I am very proud of myself for what we’ve accomplished today. Just knowing that it CAN be done, I CAN have pleasurable anal encounters means so much to me. So thank you again for that.
I surprised myself (not entirely), at how much I enjoyed everything else we tried today. Besides the smacking, everything else was new to me. I believe your gentle approach, didn’t make me feel obligated to do anything or react in anyway, I just….was. I enjoyed being present in the moment with you.
After you left, I sat in bed thinking about the experience, realizing I really didn’t know what to expect and/or the experience was not necessarily what I might have imagined.
Normally when I imagine being submissive, based on experience, my mind automatically goes foot worshipping and oral/throat training. I get into a “submissive zone” that tends to be more sexual, in an almost primal way.
It’s a different vibe than the intimacy we shared today. Not sure what I’m exactly trying to say there, but I do thank you for opening my mind and let me experience a different way of “letting go”.
I hope this is somewhat helpful 😅And I hope we get another chance to explore more.
~R. T.
Super Aggressive - but not...
Let me begin by saying wow – an experience! I have been interested in the leather/BSDM culture for much of my adult life, but as with many of the decisions I make, I had to research, and ponder on nearly everything I could get my hands on before I dedicated myself to a full inquiry. Additionally, despite being confident in my research abilities, this experience was nothing like I expected and everything I didn’t know I needed.
When I first arrived I was greeted by a warm but intentional gaze. Xir Oya your eyes… I still don’t know what it is about them, but they captivated me. Conscious conversation then ensued. Xir Oya you answered every question I had- thoroughly and at length. We discussed everything and I did not feel any condescension surrounding my ignorance but rather felt as though I was under the tutelage of a caring professor.
Then we moved to discuss the tools. I was terrified, not in the way in which I had expected, but in a way that made me want to know more. We started with a bit of fire, sounds super-aggressive but it wasn’t. Xir Oya talked me through the idea of gradual increases and preparing our body for what is to come and despite my reservations, ever-so-slowly, Xir Oya helped me to overcome my fears.
The rope was a beautiful experience, released so many endorphins and felt euphoric. Not sure what the tool that looked similar to a spur was but it had me ambivalent and torn between enjoying it and it hurting. But, back to the rope, I loved it. Can’t wait to do it again, maybe without the spur this time.
And then there was the spanking. Speechless would be an understatement, I cannot wait to experience that again. It was so erotic, but connecting at the same time. Never experienced something like that and would love to learn more about why I like it. The event that ended the night was in my mind my way of thanking Xir Oya for that wonderful experience, which I hope to do again.
~R. B.
